The sick thing about Christianity is it says people are evil to the core. You must hate yourself to be saved. Your behavior does not count, only believing in Jesus and hating the sinner that you are. Meh.
Large crowds were traveling with Jesus, and turning to them he said: “If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters—yes, even his own life—he cannot be my disciple. And anyone who does not carry his cross and follow me cannot be my disciple.